15 Signs Of A Bad Relationship You Shou Nairobi
15 Signs Of A Bad Relationship You Should Never, Ever Tolerate.
Bad relationships are all over the place. Chances are, you’ve been in one before. And if you don’t think you have, you could be in one right now. Since you’re here, you’re probably wondering what the signs of a bad relationship are so you can rule out your own.
I have bad news for you. If you’re reading this, you’re probably going through a rough time with your partner. While not all setbacks are an indication of a bad relationship, enough to make you want to research it could prove to be problematic.
Bad relationships affect far more than just your love life
They can make your entire life worse. Everything from your friendships to your career can suffer if you’re in a toxic relationship. Knowing the signs of one is a very powerful way you can take back control and prevent everything from going downhill.
Signs of a bad relationship to keep a lookout for
Nobody wants to be with someone who’s bad for them. We all want that incredible, fun love story we see all over social media. While those may not be completely accurate, they’re great goals to shoot for.
Wanting a healthy relationship is important. Recognizing that you’re not in one is also very valuable. If you truly want to know if your relationship is bad and unhealthy for both of you, here are the glaring signs of a bad relationship to watch out for.
#1 Lack of communication.
When you don’t talk to each other or worse, you CAN’T talk to each other, something is very, very wrong. In order for a relationship to be healthy, you have to be able to discuss everything. If you can’t even tell your partner when you’re upset, it’s not a good relationship.
#2 Insults – even if they’re just “jokes.”
It’s perfectly fine to tease and joke around with your significant other. It becomes a problem when those “jokes” are actually insulting and hurtful. You have to know what will cause your significant other pain.
And on the flip side, if they’re continuously insulting you and it’s actually making you upset, then you have to say something. If you can’t and this is a serious problem, it’s a sign of a bad relationship.
#3 Belittling each other in front of guests.
This can be difficult to determine simply because some people have a hard time figuring out where the line is between teasing and belittling. But if it’s blatant, then you have an awful relationship. Putting each other down should never be tolerated.
#4 Arguments with no resolution.
Fighting in relationships is perfectly fine. Obviously, if you’re fighting all the time, that’s not good. But arguing and then never actually talking about it is a major issue. You can’t bottle up those feelings. If you do, they’ll explode in the worst ways.
#5 Having make-up sex instead of talking.
If your arguments all end in the bedroom, you have an unhealthy relationship. It’s okay if you talk it out and make up BEFORE the sex, but using sex a means to solve your problems is as toxic as it gets.
#6 Your friends have told you it’s bad.
They know you best and they can tell when your behavior takes a dive for the worse. You really have to listen to them. It’s hard and you may be very defensive at first, but they care about you. Telling you the relationship is bad means it truly is.
#7 Your family doesn’t like them.
Most of your family members can tell if someone is treating you right just by how you act. If they have issues with the guy, it’s for a reason. Pay attention to your family and even ask them what they think. Some may not even be shy about telling you how they feel.
#8 Their family doesn’t like you.
Normally with bad relationships, both people are to blame. This may be evident with the way their family treats you. You might think you’re being great to them but if their family is showing you otherwise, it’s time to do some self-reflecting.
#9 Passive aggressive notes are left everywhere.
When your partner is leaving you notes all about the stuff they’re mad at you for, it’s not healthy. This is a very passive aggressive way of going about problem solving. When you can’t talk, the relationship is unhealthy.
#10 You don’t prioritize each other.
If you’re in a relationship, your partner should be your priority. Of course you have other things to worry about, but they should still be toward the top of the list. If you’re both ignoring each other and not respecting that prioritization, things will never be good for you.
#11 You hardly do nice things for one another.
In a healthy relationship, your goal is to always make each other happy. When you stop doing those things, something is wrong. You can’t be with someone if you don’t even want to do nice things for them.
#12 You don’t appreciate the stuff you actually do for each other.
When you actually do stuff that’s sweet and kind, neither of you appreciates when the other person does it. When you come to expect nice things and never acknowledge that they’re done, you’re not grateful. Being ungrateful is not healthy.
#13 You feel relieved when you get to be alone.
Now, a lot of people enjoy their alone time. But when you were just with your partner and are relieved when they finally leave, there’s an issue.
You should want to be around your significant other. Not wanting them around means you don’t like their company. If you don’t like their company, then why are you even together?
#14 You sometimes wish you weren’t together.
Even if you’re arguing, you should never feel like this in a healthy relationship. If you do, it’s one of the many signs of a bad relationship and you probably aren’t happy. When you feel this way more often than not, it’s trouble.
#15 You’re unhappy.
This should just be obvious, but some people need the reminder. If you’re not happy with your significant other, you shouldn’t be together. Forget about how long you’ve been with them or what anyone else would think if you split. Your happiness is of the utmost importance.
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When the word comes to mind my first perception is that this is a great continent blessed with a diverse number of things like minerals, food in plenty and a large plain area that could be used in various production activities that could earn revenue to the government in return.
I have been intrigued to write this article to understand the drive behind our African leaders and I believe this article will cut across the whole continent based on the similaityr system of management used throughout the continent.
Let’s start with the commonest thing viewed in Africa which is foreign aid for development purposes, as per me there should be strict accountability that follows up on the money donated which are in millions of dollars, let’s call a spade a spade being born and bred in Africa I can attest on how greedy our leaders are foreign governments should really inquire on how the finances were spent otherwise you guys are assisting in bringing the whole continent to a standstill with the gap between the rich and the poor widening further. Africa is like an aircraft that is being flown by pilots that did not go to flying school every leader acts as if they don’t have any experience in what they are spearheading.
Africa leadership needs diagnosing and assessment of the entire leadership culture which will be done well when there is a consensus that believes that our leadership is in a crisis state.
Change is possible by educating the youths and teenagers in schools on the importance of being patriotic while the same time educating them on the importance of having good amenities in the country for a sustainable future. If we tackle this issue of corruption once and for all we will be able to improve our living standards and increase our gross domestic product per ca pita.
Written by Paul Ngesa.
To many of us, our perception of the good life has been entangled to so many attributes thus making life to be very complicated, we don't need to make any changes to our personalities or the people around us because it's something that can never be achieved even if we wanted it to happen, so the question is how do we live our lives to the fullest without altering people or anything within us.
Psychology states that all human beings are good in humanistic approach, below are five things that have kept me moving towards enjoying my life to the fullest:
I realized that before i used to focus more on other peoples well being while neglecting myself at the same time but after realizing this fundamental thing i started focusing on me more, i could go for some walk around my community and still enjoy the scenery to the fullest.
Living a day at a time.
Globally there is a slight recess in the economy and many of us have been subjected to no pay or half salaries and some have experienced late salaries due to COVID 19 epidemic but this should not limit us from living our life, i was extremely stressed at first about catering for my family and if not addressed i could be heading to high stress levels but i found a way through my 5-month-old baby who is always happy and he just ignited my life back just like that am trying to say that there are some things that are way beyond us we just need to find a way of moving on, there is something or someone when you look up to you rejuvenate yourself back by making you laugh or just happy. I have a few friends who mean everything to me so please look for friends with a toothpick a saying that i learnt from one of my dearest friend.
My first step was to include positivity in my thinking, you can do all things the Obama slogan is a fundamental thing needed to drive us in our day to day lives which makes you happy in the long run even if you fail at the first attempt.
Tracking your day's activity
At times we might think that we have wasted the whole day but when we retract our steps we could see that the day was well utilized, at times people might say that if it doesn't make you happy find a way around it for you to enjoy what you do when we were kids we all had our ambitions and desires but where we are at the moment we change the mindset of everything we do to suit our desires and while our ambitions are still intact we can always upgrade in future when you have the resources no human is limited.
Last but not least we always need to be satisfied which what we have at the moment and work smart in achieving more, realistically when a person is satisfied it creates a happy feeling personally it happens to me i don't know about you.
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Cancellation of academic calendar in Kenya.
When COVID-19 started It looked like a China's problem. As time went by,it dawned to all it wasnt but a global challenge.
In Kenya,its impact was felt from 13th march 2020 when the first case was reported. A day after all schools were closed down to control the spread of the virus.
Schools have been closed since then.
Yesterday,Prof George Magoha the minister in charge of education gave out the much awaited communication on the resumption of the school calendar. In his communication he said that schools can only open in January 2021 for both primary and secondary schools.
He also pointed out that its only tertiary institutions that will resume studies in september. this year.
As a result,KCSE and KCPE 2020 have been cancelled to be undertaken later next year.
Parents have to bear the burden of taking care of their children a's they remain at home until next year. . about the school
Kisumu Police Officer To Be Charged With Attempted Murder After Shooting Husband For Not Picking Calls
A Kisumu police officer has been arrested after she shot at her husband twice.
Administration officer Maureen Awuor, 35, attached to CIPU headquarters in Kisumu East, is said to have quarreled with her spouse on Sunday, July 5.
She accused him on not picking up her calls and giving their domestic worker Sh50 for lunch without consulting her.